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What is depression?
The word depression is often used when we are feeling sad or miserable or fed
up. Feeling sad or fed up is a normal reaction to experiences
that are upsetting, stressful or difficult; those feelings
will usually pass. Sometimes we know why we feel this
way, sometimes we don't. We usually cope, we may talk to a friend about it but otherwise we don't need any other help. However, if these feelings don't change after a few weeks
and they are so bad that they interfere with your daily
life or if they come back over and over again for a
few days at a time, it could be a sign that you are
depressed in the medical sense of the term. In its
mildest form, depression can mean being in low spirits;
it mightn't even stop you leading your normal life but makes everything harder to do and
seem less worthwhile. At its more severe, depression
can have a significant negative impact on your life
because it can make life seem pointless. Depression
is not something you can just 'snap out of'. If you feel you are experiencing depression you should contact your GP for
additional support and advice. Depression is a treatable
condition. You should not suffer in silence, hoping
it will go away.
Symptoms of depression
Depression presents itself in many different ways. Some people might not even
realise they are experiencing depression thinking they
are just run down or tired. However, if you experience
five or six of the following symptoms, you should seek
additional support:
- Loss of interest in life and difficulty enjoying things in life
- Feeling tired all of the time with a lack of energy
- Finding it difficult to make decisions
- Feeling restless and agitated
- Waking up early and having difficulty falling asleep at night
- Loss of interest in sex
- Loss of appetite and weight or the reverse where you put on weight
- Feeling useless, inadequate and hopeless
- Avoiding other people
- Feeling worse at a particular time of day, usually in the morning
- Loss of self-confidence
- Inability to cope with things as you used to
- Having a pessimistic view of the future
- Blaming yourself and feeling unnecessarily guilty about things
- Self-harming behaviour
- Thoughts of suicide
What causes depression?
As with our everyday feelings, sometimes there is an obvious reason for us becoming
depressed. Like, for example, job loss, relationship
breakdown or bereavement. These are known as environmental
factors and this type of depression is known as reactive
depression. Sometimes, however, there is no obvious
cause. In this case it may be biological or genetic
in nature. Often depression can be caused by a number
of different factors - biological, genetic and environmental
- and these factors will be different for everyone. Some of the risk factors for depression include the following: distressing events
such as bereavement, loss of job, relationship breakdown
or major life event such as moving house, being attacked,
moving job or having a baby. It's not just the experience that causes depression but how we deal with it; if
the feelings provoked are not expressed at the time,
they fester and can contribute towards depression.
Past experiences have an effect on how we feel about ourselves in the present
and if those feelings are very negative, they can be
the start of a downward spiral.
Physical illness that can threaten your future like cancer, heart disease and
illnesses that are long and painful, can cause you
to become depressed. Under-active thyroid function
can also cause you to experience various symptoms,
for example, lethargy, weight gain and depression.
Under-active thyroid function can be easily treated
with medication. Over-active thyroid function can cause
you to lose weight and have symptoms similar to mania.
Alcohol: heavy drinking has a big effect on how you feel causing us to feel
more depressed. Alcohol has also been identified as
a major factor in suicide.
Genes: depression can run in families. This does not mean if a close family
member has depression, you will definitely get it too.
However, if depression runs in your family, you should
be aware of the symptoms.
Different types of depression
There are many different types of depression which include the following:
- Mild depression: this form of depression is often triggered by a specific event,
such as the loss of a job. Symptoms include feeling
low and anxious. Sometimes a change in lifestyle
is all that is required to lift this kind of depression.
- Severe depression: this could potentially be a life-threatening illness. A person
with severe depression experiences intense symptoms
and the illness interferes significantly with their
daily life. It is important that medical help is
sought.
- Bipolar depression: this is also known as manic-depression or manic-depressive
illness. A person with this condition experiences
sustained high moods alternating with periods of
sustained low moods. High moods can see the person
feeling elated and needing less sleep or food than
usual. Low moods can range from mild to severe depression.
- Dysthymia: this is a mild form of depression, but is more persistent. The condition
may come and go, but if it has gone on for more than
two months in a two-year time span, dysthymia may
be diagnosed. One of the main symptoms is low self-esteem.
People with dysthymia are at increased risk of developing
full depression.
- Postnatal-depression: this is depression which arises after a woman has a baby.
It can occur straight after the birth or, in some
cases, it doesn't develop until up to a year later.
Medical treatment is recommended, however, many women
do not seek help as they feel that this is something
they must endure or they put it down to tiredness
or adjustment.
What to do if you feel you have depression?
- Speak to your GP for advice and information.
- Exercise regularly to stimulate endorphins which have a positive effect on mood.
- Challenge negative thinking and replace them with more realistic thoughts. Check
out the Challenge Negative thinking module in the
Self Help section for more information.
- Eat well - you may not feel like eating but a good diet of vitamins and minerals
can help how you feel about yourself and impact on
your energy levels.
- Talk to friends and family members you can trust. It's good to share problems with others as it is part of the mind's natural way
of healing.
- Avoid alcohol and drugs - they can seem like ways to get you through hard times
but, in fact, they can make the situation worse.
Alcohol may make you feel good for a short time but
it doesn't last. Drinking can also stop you dealing with the issue and getting appropriate
help.
- Sleep is a very restorative action for our body and mind. If you are experiencing
depression you may find it difficult to get to sleep.
If this is the case try to work out a strategy that
works for you, e.g. reading or listening to music.
You may also find it useful to check out the Sleep
module in the Self Help section.
- Tackle the cause of your depression if you know what it is. This can be a very
daunting task but addressing the problem can have
a major impact. Check out the problem-solving module
in the "Self Help" section.
What treatments are available for depression?
There are three main types of treatment for depression:
Self help
This includes self help books, leaflets or programmes. They are usually based
on the Cognitive Behavioural Therapy approach which
helps you identify your patterns of thinking and develop
more helpful ways of thinking and responding. An example
of a CBT-based self-help programme can be found in
the "Self Help" section of this website.
Talking therapies
There are many forms of psychotherapy available which can be very effective
for people with mild to moderate depression.
These include:
Counselling takes place where a counsellor sees a client in a private and confidential setting
to explore a difficulty the client is having, distress
they may be experiencing, or perhaps their dissatisfaction
with life, loss of a sense of direction and purpose.
By listening attentively and patiently, the counsellor
can begin to perceive the difficulties from the client's
point of view and can help them to see things more
clearly, possibly from a different perspective. Counselling
is a way of enabling choice or change or of reducing
confusion. It does not involve giving advice or directing
a client to take a particular course of action.
Cognitive behavioural therapy deals with how you think about yourself, the world and other people and how
what you do affects your thoughts and feelings. CBT
can help you to change how you think ("cognitive") and what you do ("behaviour"). These changes can help you to feel better. CBT focuses on present problems
and instead of focusing on the causes of your distress
or symptoms in the past, it looks for ways to improve
your state of mind now.
Problem solving therapy: helps you deal with the problems in your life by applying techniques to break
problems down into more manageable tasks.
Support groups are helpful in that you get to meet and share experiences with people going
through similar events as you. Aware runs supports
groups for people affected by depression throughout
Ireland. To find out about your nearest group, contact
Aware on 1890 303 302 or visit www.aware.ie
Bereavement counselling: helps you come to terms with the death of someone in your life.
Interpersonal and psychodynamic psychotherapy: tends to be longer-term treatment. It looks at how past experiences are affecting
you now.
Anti-depressant medication
Anti-depressant drugs are the most common medical treatment for depression.
They work on chemical messengers in the brain to lift
your mood and make you feel less anxious and agitated
and deal with your problem effectively. Anti-depressants
can take a number of weeks for you to fully feel the
effects.
How can I support my friend who is experiencing depression?
- Encourage your friend to seek help. This may be very difficult for your friend
to do because of stigma associated with mental health
problems. Assure your friend that they are doing
the right thing dealing with their problem instead
of just ignoring it.
- Spend time with your friend and encourage them to continue in the activities
they find enjoyable.
- Listen to your friend talk. It is good to have someone to actively listen to
your situation. This may be difficult as you may
find yourself listening to something that you find
tedious but to your friend it is important. By actively
listening to your friend, they will feel supported.
Try not to jump to solutions for your friend or offer
advice on what to do. Support your friend to come
up with their own solutions to their own problems.
- Avoid alcohol. If your friend is experiencing depression, alcohol will only make
the problem worse. Try to suggest alternatives to
alcohol or, alternatively, activity that does not
involve alcohol.
- If your friend suggests or hints at suicide, take them seriously. Do not keep
this information confidential. Seek help from someone
you trust and encourage your friend to visit your
GP immediately.
For more information on depression contact Aware on 1890 302 303 or visit www.aware.ie
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